Saint Matthew — name day on August 22: prayers, traditions and what to avoid

Tomorrow, August 22, believers and families mark the feast day of Saint Matthew — a day for name-day greetings, quiet reflection and small acts of kindness.

Who Saint Matthew was and why the day matters

According to tradition, Matthew was an early follower of Jesus who left his post as a tax collector to become an apostle and herald of the Gospel. As a child he was orphaned, and his first teacher and spiritual father was Simeon the God‑Receiver (the righteous man who held the young Christ in his arms at the temple), who guided him into close knowledge of God’s law and the practice of virtue.

The accounts say that Matthew preached first in Judea and later travelled as a missionary; he is also said to have carried the Gospel into Ethiopia. In some local traditions he preached in Macedonia. After the Resurrection, the apostles chose Matthew by lot to fill the place left by Judas. His life ended as a martyr: he was condemned in Judea by the high priest Anan, stoned, and then beheaded with an axe.

There are also stories connected with his missionary journeys that grew into local lore: when enemies and pagans allegedly tried to seize him and gouge out his eyes, the narrative tells that Matthew became invisible to them by divine power and escaped danger.

Liturgically and spiritually, Matthew is presented as a model of calm, wise decision and fidelity. The church hymnography and canonical prayers link his intercession with inner fulfilment, spiritual meekness, relief from the burden of sin and a renewed readiness to speak God’s word with joy and grace.

For those observing the day: it is traditional to avoid beginning new projects and to keep the day for prayer, silence and spiritual clarity. People are encouraged to clear up false friendships or injustices through prayer, to refrain from quarrels and gossip, and to be cautious with financial transactions so as not to “drive luck from the house.” To bring good fortune at home, the custom recommends giving a small, symbolic gift to someone you have lately neglected; the apostolic example calls for sharing light and unconditional kindness. Note that this year the feast falls during the Virgin Mary fast; culinary practice permits oil and wine.

Finally, remember to congratulate those who celebrate their name‑day: Matthew and Matea.

Photo: press material from the event